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This is Luke's story:
I am the parent of a child with bipolar disorder, impulse control disorder and
anxiety. Ours was a world filled with confusion, unhappiness and emotional
chaos. From the time my son, Luke, was a toddler I knew that something was
different about him. He would become very sad and violent from time to time;
other times, he act very loud and silly -- "wild"
would a fitting term. Then, there would be the times when a very intelligent,
loving, charming, sweet child would appear. I never knew from one minute to the
next how his moods could change so drastically. Trying to tie discipline into
this irrational behavior was a nightmare!
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This is Tess' story:
My daughter, Tess, had been going to a preschool prior to moving to Behave
'n Day Center. When Tess was at preschool, there was a lot of aggression
and she refused to listen to the teachers or the other students. I had taken
her to a nurse practitioner who diagnosed her with ADD and put her on a medication
called Adderral, but she did not get any better. Tess later had a reaction
to the medicine and we took her off of it. The practitioner then started
her on Zoloft, but it didn't her any better either. She was very lethargic,
not like a normal 4-year old should be, so the practitioner took her off
Zoloft, too. When I was at hospital, I found a Behave'n Day Center flier
and made an appointment to talk to the director. By this time, the preschool
warned me that Tess would be kicked out if she had any more outbursts.
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This is Jacob's story:
Our son, Jacob, is a lovable, intelligent, insightful, funny and imaginative
five-year old. Jacob can also be a manipulative, defiant child full of rage
and prone to violent attacks and destruction of personal property. I believe
that his mom and I are caring, capable parents, but we were unprepared and
increasingly unable to deal with these disruptive behaviors. It is difficult
to describe the frustration and sense of helplessness we felt as we watched
Jacob's outbursts occur more and more frequently and become more severe.
Jacob had attended preschool since age 3. He did okay for a while, but there
were occasional episodes at home and school where he essentially lost control
and descended into an animal-like state.
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This is Wally's story:
Behave'n Day Center has been a very positive influence in my child's life.
When my son, Wally, first started there, he would not listen to directions
and would laugh at you when you discipline him. After attending Behave'n
Day Center, Wally follows directions better than he did in the beginning
and he will accept his consequences without having to go all the way to time-out.
Behave'n Day Center is a very good program for families struggling with discipline
problems.
This is Andrew's story:
Our son, Andrew, has had behavioral problems his whole life. It just went unnoticed
and denied until it escalated so badly that he was unsafe around other children.
In the spring of 2001, it all came to a head when he was expelled from a
Catholic daycare center for using foul language on a regular basis, hitting
others for no reason, and threatening to choke teachers and younger more
vulnerable kids. He was back talking, throwing temper tantrums, hitting us
and was always defiant to authority figures. He was labeled as a "bad
boy" and he knew it.
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This is Nick's story:
I am a mother of a five-year-old little boy. At the age of four, my son, Nick,
started having inappropriate, uncontrollable outbursts. The daycare he attended
started reporting extremely disturbing behavior. At first I didn't believe
this was happening. I had never had a problem before with aggressive behaviors
from my kids, so this was unusual. Nick started doing things like spitting,
biting, hitting and throwing things at his caregivers and other children.
He was out of control. I wanted to blame someone, so I placed the blame on
the daycare he had been in because they had handled the behaviors inappropriately
at times themselves. Normal daycare providers are not trained to work with
aggressive youth, so I am sure they were at a loss as to how to control Nick.
But the fact is, Nick needed a special type of help that the other center
wasn't able to give him.
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